LGBTQ+ cruise social · Free

See who else is going
before you sail.

Out There Together is the app for LGBTQ+ people who cruise. Find your sailing, see who is already on it and plan the first night before you have packed.

Get it onGoogle Play Coming soon to theApp Store

Or open it in your browser and sign in.

Free to join · Verified members only see the community · Not a travel agent, we never take a booking

A cruise page in the app: Norway on MSC Meraviglia from Southampton, with the itinerary and a Who's sailing row shown as locked tiles to a guest.
The Discover screen in the app: Where will you go next, with a search box, cruise line, region, month and year filters and trending sailings.

Out now on Android in the UK, the US and Canada. iPhone follows once Apple finishes its review.

Less guessing. More going together.

01

Find your sailing

Search more than 18,000 sailings by line, ship, port and month. Mark yours as Booked or Planning. If it is missing, add it.

02

See who is going

Verified members can see who is on board, who is planning and who is travelling together. Say hello in the sailing chat before anyone boards.

03

Plan something

Sailaway drinks, a beach day, dinner in port. Put it in the diary and let the sailing join. Or join what is already there.

Straight from the app

Your sailing, all in one place.

Search results for Norway: a calendar showing when everyone is going, filters for ship, port, length and line, and matching sailings sorted by most sailors.
Search 18,000 sailings
A cruise page: Norway on MSC Meraviglia, 28 August to 4 September 2027, with dates, length, departure port and a Who's sailing row.
See who is sailing
A joined sailing in the app: Mediterranean, 9 nights, with Plan, Shipmates, Chat and Meet buttons and a day strip of ports.
Plan, chat and meet
Itinerary and things to do ashore in Barcelona, with port safety badges and tours sold by Viator.
Make more of days ashore

Screens from the app. Sailings, people and activities will vary. Member photos are hidden.

Safety

Meet people without giving up control.

  • Verified members

    Every member who sees the community has proved who they are with a photo ID. We keep the result, never the document.

  • You choose what is visible

    Your profile, your photos, your sailing status. Private galleries are friends-only and you can take access back at any time.

  • Report, block, mute

    On every profile, photo and message. A person looks at every report within a day.

  • Know before you go

    Every port shows whether the country protects, restricts or criminalises LGBTQ+ people, as guidance, so you can decide what the day ashore looks like for you.

Your sailing. Your people.

Free on Android now, iPhone soon, or in your browser.

Get it onGoogle Play Coming soon to theApp Store Open in yourbrowser

Already a member? Sign in.

Frequently asked questions

Is it free?

Yes, and it stays free. We do not charge members and there are no paid tiers.

How do you make money?

When a member is ready to book, we point them to the cruise line or an authorised agent, and some of those partners pay us a referral fee. We never take a booking or hold your money. Details are in our affiliate disclosure.

Why do I have to verify?

So that everyone who can see who is on board has proved who they are. It is what makes people comfortable being themselves here.

Is it a dating app?

No. It is for finding your people on your sailing. Members on a sailing that is under way can opt in to meet one another, and only if both say yes.

Do I need to have booked a cruise?

No. You can mark a sailing as Planning while you decide, or Booked once you have. You can also browse sailings as a guest before creating an account.

Where is it available?

The Android app is on Google Play in the UK, the US and Canada. The iPhone app is with Apple for review and will appear on the App Store once approved. The web version works anywhere.